Monday, January 18, 2010

If I have a boyfriend would it be inappropiate to take a bath with another girl?

I have a close friend who is a girl and we like to cuddle. We even have sleep overs some times and it is nothing sexual. Just friendship. I have bathed with her in the past, but now that I have a bf I am not sure if it would be appropiate (?) even though it is not sexual. What do you think? If I have a boyfriend would it be inappropiate to take a bath with another girl?
thats hot If I have a boyfriend would it be inappropiate to take a bath with another girl?
Aside from the inmature innuendos, this is a situation you may have to discuss with your bf.





Some questions to ask yourself beforehand:





a) do you feel comfortable bringing it up and asking your bf about it, or do you feel you have to hide it? (if you feel you have to hide it, then your own conscience may be telling you it is inappropriate)





b) do you consider this to be ';just your business';? in other words, where do you consider your boundaries to be with your bf at this time? (sometimes some things are just not anyone else's business, especially early in a relationship)





In any case, hope you find the perfect solution.






Technically, if its not sexual in anyway, that's between you and here. If your boyfriend is like a typical guy, he'd probably start picturing you two together anyway. Now I'm not saying you should hide it from him, but you known her longer than him. In this case, best friend beats boyfriend. Best advice I can give you, just talk to them both about it, see how your best friend feels and your boyfriend feels. Then figure out how you feel about the whole thing.
um and how old are you?


i only took a bath with a girl when i was like 5


but that would be wrong and if you werent bi then it would look like it


even if you are its still cheating





btw naked or like with bathing suits? i mean if you're gonna wear bathing suits and like just sit there then um yeah sure but if you're naked and like washing eachother, thats wrong.
but there would bea possibilty to do sex with boy, its not easy to control sex, if you would take bath with him, may u would indulge in sex that day, its not possible to control, chance of sex are 100%, yah u take bath with your girl friend, because the girl was your friend and u both have same sex, but in the condition of boy its not so easy, so before take bath think first than do it, it can aslo harm u
well one thing i would like to ask first that you are crazy. but you are mode too who is thinking that bathing with a boyfriend will not urge you to have sex i think this is some what possible to do bathing without haveing sex but what will happen after bathing am not sure. so be carefull after bathing......



lol my boyfriend says, ';it is appropriate in all circumstances. you know they aren't going to start lezzing out, and even if they did, it's okay.';





but what i think is that you should talk to your boyfriend about it. but really, i don't see why it would be a big deal.
It's for you and your boyfriend to decide. There are no universal rules, you have to decide what you feel is acceptable for yourselves.
Depends on what your own relationship rules are. You could tell your boyfriend, but he'd prolly just say something like, ';wow, that's hot. Can I join?'; Prolly not the answer you're looking for.
talk to your man about it... i mean if you guys are friends it should be ok. or you could tease him... haha. but don't tell me you shower with your friend and never with him!!! hahaha


but back to the question, jus ask him
Us girls we are so magical


Soft skin, red lips, so kissable


Hard to resist so touchable


Too good to deny it


Ain't no big deal, it's innocent
You're asking the wrong question.





You shouldn't be sharing bathwater with anyone else! Think about it -- You are sitting in someone else's scummy butt and crotch water.





That's disgusting.
dont listen to the pervert. and you should talk to your b/f if your concerned. Its a diff. subject that really depends on how liberal/conservative your bf is
Your boyfriend thought you looks like a lesbian. If you want boyfriend keep your relationship, I think you don't have to take shower with girls. Good luck
it depends how he feels about the situation. personally i wouldn't care. im sure if you had a threesome there would be no more worries about whether its appropriate.
Im sure he would be ok with it...but question is, are you going to be ok with him taking a bath with another man? Purely non sexual mind you. Just a cuddle fast.
Just make it pretty clear to him that you're not a lesbian... and then suggest for a three-some and you should be just fine.... lol.
thats just what girls do...guys wouldnt understand








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Ur boyfriend probably wants a threesome haha. Sexy
if you want to bathe with other women, and it not be sexual..go to a hotel hot tub..otherwise, ur lying to urself when u say its not sexual.
thats not normal that 2 girls bath together unless they are gay! thats not normal and is really weird
nothing bad about that.
That is so hot. But it's not inappropriate.
talk to your boyfriend about it im sure he'll be fine with it.
It does sound a bit crazy but its not a bad thing lols
if you both are seriously just best friends, no feelings, that is totally fine. girls are touchy feely
I don't think he will mind.





I agree with the first guy too. That's hot.
not a big deal at all. he won't mind it at all he will only enjoy it if you are going to tell him.....
...ok i gotta calm down... ...deep breaths...... ...gotta compose myself...... ok





that's hot





and i think he would be ok with it
If it isn't sexual why should it matter? Really I don't think it will be a big deal to him
guys love girl on girl sall good

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